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The Changing of the Guard

Sunday, January 15th, 2017

Entrance, Oysterville Cemetery

While the world’s attention is drawn toward ‘the other Washington’ and the handover of our nation’s perch of power, Oysterville has been undergoing its own changing of the guard. Not that many folks necessarily care.  Or even notice.  For the first time in more than thirty years, we have new officers, new interest, and new energy to direct toward our peaceful little graveyard on Davis Hill.

The Oysterville Cemetery Association met last April to elect new Board members and plan for a transition of responsibilities to take place in 2017.  We met again last week to coordinate our maps, review the plot ownerships, and talk about future needs.  Meetings will continue for a bit – there are signature cards at the bank to deal with.  And at the post office.  And there is information to convey to local mortuaries, to the State of Washington, and to others concerned with the operation and maintenance of the cemetery.

Part of Old Linen Cemetery Map c. 1870s

Outgoing president Ron Biggs has walked new president Tucker Wachsmuth through both the old and new sections of the cemetery showing him the boundary markers for plots and lots.  He explained what needs to be done when Mortician Ron Hylton calls to ask that a gravesite be staked out for an upcoming burial.  I, as outgoing Secretary/Treasurer, have been meeting with Kitt Fleming, my replacement, to go over legalities of lot sales, bank balances and investments, correspondence, and other paperwork necessities.

We’re talking about the physical clean-up that needs to be done each year – after the storms of winter are over but before the annual Memorial Day tribute.  In recent memory – as in the last three or four decades – Corky and Ronnie Biggs (but especially Corky) have spent many a late winter day gathering and raking up the blow-down of winter and disposing of pickup truck-loads at their burn pile.  “How about a community work party in March or April?” suggested Kitt.

Yes!  Great idea!  For as fractured as the living community of Oysterville seems these days, there are still more of us with loved ones in the cemetery than not, and an even greater number who have purchased lots in preparation for their own eventualities.  It seems odd to think that we might agree more on the conditions surrounding our eternity than we do about our day-to-day living situations.  It’s a thought worth pondering…

Where have all the flowers gone?

Saturday, May 28th, 2016
Memorial Day 2009 - Oysterville Cemetery

Memorial Day 2012 – Oysterville Cemetery

There’s something ironic about not having flowers in the garden ready-for-the-picking on this particular weekend of the year.  Today (the Saturday of Memorial Day Weekend) is traditionally the day we take flowers to the cemetery.  For the first time in the thirty-eight years I’ve been decorating our family’s graves, we have no flowers in the garden.  None.

Not that they’ve “gone to young girls, every one.”  Not like in Pete Seeger’s lyrics.  They have simply finished their blooming several weeks earlier than usual.  And now we are hard pressed to find anything at all beyond greenery.  And, believe me, our cemetery has plenty of that already.  In fact, it’s the splash of color midst all the evergreens on “Decoration Day” that makes the statement of remembrance special.

I took a walk around the garden yesterday, stewing about the dilemma.  Should we actually go and buy flowers?  It seemed wrong somehow.  Like commercializing the day.  Bad enough that we’ve managed to take spirit out of every other holiday we celebrate.  Somehow, this one day of remembrance should be honored with a little effort and ingenuity – not by throwing money at it.

"That Bush"

“That Bush”

And then my eyes fixed themselves on “that bush.”  We don’t know what it is.  It grows just at the southeast corner of the house.  It’s been there all my life.  I’ve always thought that my grandmother planted it in the 1920s but it could have been planted by Tom Crellin and his wife back in the 1870s.  Or maybe even by a Baptist preacher back when this was the parsonage.  The defining thing about it right this minute is that it’s yellow.  Bright lemony yellow!  The only spot of non-green in our garden.

I’ve been thinking for some time that we really need to trim “that bush.”  What could be better than to arrange the trimmings in our Memorial Day containers and take that bit of sunshine up to the Espy family plot?  So… that’s the plan for this afternoon.  “Gone to graveyards, everyone”…

See you at the church on Saturday?

Monday, April 4th, 2016

2009 10 19_0154 WANTED:  Interested community volunteers to join the Oysterville Cemetery Association and, perhaps, to serve on the Cemetery Board.  It’s not the sexiest job in the world.  On the other hand, it isn’t very demanding either.  A concerted search has revealed minutes from our last meeting — dated 1986!   Our ‘clients’ don’t complain and, as long as the work gets done, everyone seems at peace.

Back in the early ’60s (1860s, that is) F.C. Davis sold an acre of his land to the newly formed Cemetery Association for $100.  The acre on “Davis Hill” just west of town was  to be used as Oysterville’s burying ground. For the next hundred years, the residents of Oysterville looked after the graves of their loved ones, saw to it that the unknown sailors who washed up on our beaches were given a decent burial and a place to rest for eternity, and trusted to the local mortician to keep track of things.  Except for cleaning up the gravesites (a springtime community effort) there was never ‘much doin’ in the Cemetery.

Stevens GraveThen, in the mid-’60s (the 1960s, this time) when Cecil Espy retired from his banking career in Portland and moved back here to the house in which he was born, he took it upon himself to “clean up the Cemetery grounds.”  With a small hand scythe he cut the waist-high grass that had grown around and over the gravestones and carefully brought the cemetery up to his high standard of appearance.  He gathered up the bits and pieces of deeds and sales records and the old linen map and, as he aged, began to think of the Cemetery as his own.

In the late seventies, when Uncle Cecil could no longer do the physical labor, the neighbors began to talk about the future of the little graveyard on Davis Hill.  They formed a Cemetery Association — the initial membership list looks like a roll call of those now buried on the site they so lovingly tended.  Some of us are still at it, but we are getting long in the tooth, ourselves.  It’s time for us to look for newer, younger volunteers to take over.

2009 10 19_0049With that in mind, we are holding a meeting of the Oysterville Cemetery Association this Saturday, April 9th at the Oysterville Church.   Residents of the community are urged to attend.  There are no “pre-requisites” for joining us — only a love of our quiet little ‘final resting place’ and an interest in continuing the work that was started more than 150 years ago.

Please join us at 10:00 Saturday morning (April 9th) at the Oysterville Church to help us in this important “regrouping” effort.  Oh… and in case you need a little more enticement, coffee and cookies will be served!
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Division of Labor

Friday, March 25th, 2016
Oysterville Cemetery - Looking North from Stevens' Plot

Oysterville Cemetery – Looking North from Stevens’ Plot

We drove up to the cemetery yesterday to see how it was looking now that the huge spruce tree has been removed.  There is still a lot of blowdown, but the north end of the pioneer section looks fabulous – better than it has in many months.  Dead tree limbs and twigs that litter the cemetery after winter storms have been gathered up into six or seven neat piles – about a pickup load each – and await a trip to the dump. (Volunteers, take note!  Feel free to help out by taking a pile!)

Contrary to popular belief, there have been no invisible just-come-out-at-night cemetery elves at work here.  The cleanup can be attributed almost entirely to Corky and Ron Biggs.  They have put in hours and hours of work raking, hauling, and tidying.  They’ve been doing it for years but it has taken the magical transformation following our tree disaster to make their work really obvious.  They are definitely the unsung heroes of the Oysterville Cemetery.

Stevens' Marker, Knocked Off Its Base

Stevens’ Marker, Knocked Off Its Base

For almost three decades, Ron has served as President of the Oysterville Cemetery Association.  As such, he signs deeds and other important documents, but mostly he handles the physical aspects of cemetery stewardship.  When it comes time for a burial, it’s Ron who stakes out the plot so that Penttila’s will know the correct location.  When the road around the perimeter gets rutted, it’s Ron who arranges to get the gravel and, usually, it’s Ron who’s up there with his shovel doing the necessary road work.

Once, when we had a vacancy on the Cemetery Board, I suggested that Ron’s wife, Corky, might fill the position.  “Why would you do that?” she asked.  “As long as you have Ron, you get me, anyway!”  And, that is the absolute understatement of all time.  Often, it’s Corky who goes up to the cemetery after a storm to check it out.  She’s usually the one who spots a problem and sees to it that it gets fixed.  And, if there were medals for Cleaner-Upper Extraordinaire, Corky would have a trophy case full of them.

Fence Remnants Hidden in Salal

Fence Remnants Found Hidden in Salal

What’s even more impressive to me is that Corky never ever says a word about what she’s done.  Ron brags on her a little, sometimes, as a good husband should!  But, I doubt that the general public has a clue about her efforts over the years.  If you see her, you might tell her “thank you.”  But, knowing Corky, she’d be more pleased if you just pitched in and helped.  There’s more blowdown to gather at the south end of the cemetery.  And, if you have a truck and a little time, there are all those piles that need to be taken away.

The Kindness of Friends and Strangers

Wednesday, March 23rd, 2016
Before the Cleanup - Photo by Corky Biggs

Before the Cleanup – Photo by Corky Biggs

The calls of concern and donations toward cleanup are coming in.  They are from friends and strangers, about in equal numbers.  One of the first checks came from a woman in Maryland whose father had lived in Long Beach.  As far as I know, her only connection to Oysterville and to our cemetery is through the occasional visit.  I’m not even sure how she heard about our troubles unless, perhaps, she gets the Chinook Observer online or in person.

The disaster has made the paper’s front page headlines two weeks in a row now and, each time, the articles have suggested getting in touch with me with offers of help.  And people have been doing exactly that!  We are so grateful – and by ‘we’ I mean, first and foremost The Oysterville Cemetery Association which, like all such groups here on the Peninsula, is composed of volunteers.  Aging ones, at that!  Also – ‘we’ is the greater ‘we’ of the entire Oysterville community and the ‘we’ who have loved ones buried up in the old graveyard.

Before the Cleanup - Photo by Corky Biggs

Before the Cleanup – Photo by Corky Biggs

It’s still hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that DPR Builder and Developers and Hill & Son Excavating, Inc. donated their equipment, their manpower, and their time to remove the huge spruce that fell across the road and onto the Stevens (no relation) gravesite.  What a wonderful community service!  And, as far as I know, neither firm has a direct connection with the cemetery, as in forebears buried there.

The closest connection I can make is that Pat Lucero (of DPR) and Parker Hill (of Hill & Son) were both students in my 1st/2nd/3rd grade classes at Ocean Park School back in the 1980s/1990s.  Undoubtedly, we took a field trip to Oysterville and maybe even went up to the cemetery.  Maybe.  Probably wishful thinking on my part, but it doesn’t matter how that seed of community service and caring might have been planted – they get our undying (no pun intended) appreciation and admiration.

Stevens Cemetery Plot - Drawing by Larry Weathers, 1978

Stevens Cemetery Plot – Drawing by Larry Weathers, 1978

Getting an evaluation of damage to the stones (which looks to be minimal) and how to fix them is a whole other ballgame.  The “only monument company in town” is not in town at all but in Astoria.  They are short of workers and won’t be able to be here for a month or more.  Actually we’ve had calls in to them for more than a year about other gravestone matters but, in this case, they have offered to provide advice with regard to stone adhesives etc. to a qualified worker.  We have a call in to the best mason in the area and our fingers are crossed that we’ll soon get a response.

Meanwhile, thank you to everyone who has come forward with donations and offers of help.  Once again we are so grateful and proud to live here in this very special and caring place!

Grave Damage at the Oysterville Cemetery

Friday, March 11th, 2016
Peter Janke Photo

A Peter Janke Photo

The ink was not yet dry (so to speak) on yesterday’s blog before Dan Driscoll wrote that contrary to my storm damage (as in the lack thereof) report, the North End of Oysterville had suffered considerably. Especially the cemetery. And he referenced our neighbor Peter Janke’s photos.

A Corky Biggs Photo

A Corky Biggs Photo

A Peter Janke Photo

A Peter Janke Photo

Hard on the heels of that notification, Ron Biggs came by to say that he was contacting a couple of contractors to see who could take care of the tree that had fallen across the Stevens’ plot. “They’ll need a bucket truck,” he said. “It may be spendy.”

As President of the Oysterville Cemetery Association, it is Ron who oversees the graveyard’s physical needs. Often he and his wife Corky do necessary cleanup themselves, but this time is different. We’ll need professional help and, as the official Secretary/Treasurer and writer-of-checks, that’s where I come in. All I could think of was “at least our hillside didn’t slide away like at the Ilwaco Cemetery.” And, “I wonder why the Peninsula’s poor old cemeteries are on Mother Nature’s hit list right now.”

Ron also said that he had locked the gate to the cemetery for the time being. People can still walk in but vehicles won’t be permitted until the road is passable. “Until then,” he said, “it would be hard to get around without running over the grass; we don’t need more damage.”

A Peter Janke Photo

A Peter Janke Photo

I haven’t been up there yet to see for myself. The Stevens’ (no relation) plot is right next to the Espy section and is one of the oldest in the cemetery. Ron said he doesn’t think the main stone was damaged although it looks like the top section might have been knocked off. “We’ll know more when they get that tree out of there and we can see it clearly,” he said.

Ditto, I guess, the sign that marks the graves of unknown sailors. It looks as though the wooden posts broke off and it just toppled over. Corky says that Ron can take care of that one. Bless him!

Sometimes it’s positively eerie…

Wednesday, March 18th, 2015
Sydney and Uncle Cecil, 1979

Sydney and Uncle Cecil, 1979

Right after I gave my “Putting the Story Back in History” talk at the schoolhouse last week, a man who had been in the audience introduced himself as a first cousin of my neighbors Anne Kepner and Jean Stamper. He wanted to know if my great uncle Cecil (about whom I’d spoken in one of my stories) was the man he had known in his childhood as ‘Grandy.’   At the Red House here in Oysterville?  The very one!

I was pleased at that connection and had all those lovely six degrees of separation and small world thoughts. As it turned out, though, that was only the beginning. The very next day there came a phone call from a woman in Portland with an inquiry about the cemetery. Nothing unusual there. As secretary/treasurer of the Oysterville Cemetery Board, I am often contacted by folks wanting to buy plots or to learn if a loved one is buried here.

Oysterville Cemetery

Oysterville Cemetery

But, this woman identified herself as a relative of Jimmy Anderson – another one of the characters I had featured in my talk of the day before! I remember Jimmy from my childhood – the gentle old man who walked through town every other day or so for a “fresh” can of milk for his many cats. The same Jimmy Anderson who played the violin whispered to be a Stradivarius. The Jimmy who died (in 1947) standing at his sink and, by the time he was found, the brambles had grown through the open window and had begun to twine round his arms.
My caller, whose name was Pat, was interested in placing a stone on the lot where Jimmy and his mother (and probably his father) are buried. I was absolutely thrilled with that bit of news. Not only did I know nothing about Jimmy’s relatives but it is a constant lament that many of the old graves are without markers. We discussed the hows of going about her project and agreed to meet yesterday when she would be coming to the beach with… Anne Kepner, her neighbor in Portland!

Drawing by Larry Weathers

Drawing by Larry Weathers

So it was yesterday afternoon that we went up to the cemetery, map in hand, to locate the Anderson lot. We didn’t find the stone that had once been there for Jimmy’s mother and, though we were hopeful, our expectations weren’t high. In 1978 when Larry Weathers sketched all the markers in the pioneer section, he noted that Emma Anderson’s stone was “loosely embedded in the grass.” Perhaps it is now grown over completely.

Meanwhile, I’m still shaking my head over those back-to-back connections through our friend Anne with overtones (or undertones) of favorite Oysterville Characters who had been the subjects of my little schoolhouse talk. What are the odds? Certainly better than one in six degrees! And, once again I am convinced that all roads eventually lead to Oysterville!

Postscript — Just as I finished this account, Oysterville Cemetery President Ron Biggs rang my bell.  In answer to my call for help, he had found Emma’s stone!  As suspected, it was under four inches of moss and grass!

Issue after Issue on Wednesdays!

Thursday, October 9th, 2014

 

Maggie in her Kitchen

Maggie in her Kitchen

The Chinook Observer comes on Wednesdays and now that Nyel and I are shut-ins (well, Nyel for sure but me not so much) it’s our window to the local world. It’s where we learn who’s doing what, possibly to whom, and what all we are missing out on beyond the confines of our immediate neighborhood.

This week I was delighted to see that two people we know are featured prominently – Maggie Stuckey, in the cover story on the Coast Weekend insert, and Bud Goulter, on the front of the second section of the paper, “Peninsula Life.”  We knew the Maggie story was coming, but the Bud feature came as a complete surprise.

Cate Gable had been in touch with me and with other ‘authors’ of recipes in Maggie’s book Soup Night, asking if we would agree to gather for a picture for the article she was writing about Maggie and her book. There was a vague plan to gather in front the Shelburne (David Campiche is another of the recipe donors) at the photographer’s convenience. The next we heard, though, was that Alex Pajunas (the aforementioned photographer) had run Maggie down at her place in Portland and so we would not be needed.

I was delighted – not only to see Maggie’s smiling face but to get a little glimpse of her other residence. And, of course to drool over the thought of going to the Fort George Brewery tonight at 7:00 to sample soups “on tap” and hear another of Maggie’s delightful presentation. Unfortunately, I can drool until I’m awash and I’ll not be able to attend but both Nyel and I wish her well and hope that she sells many books – for the sake of the buyers as well as for the author! It is a fabulous book!

Bud at the Cemetery

Bud at the Cemetery

The story about Bud was another matter entirely. The last time Bud was at our house, he scolded me in no uncertain terms about having talked to the paper about our cemetery and probably causing the latest round of vandalism there. “Your picture was right there in the article,” he said. I was mystified until I realized that it was a picture I had taken, not a picture of me.”

And after all that, here is a huge picture of Bud, himself, (and other pictures of the Oysterville Cemetery, too) in an article titled “Cemetery Residents Live on in Bud Goulter’s Heart.” It was an article by Natalie St. John and I just had to smile. I am sure that Bud complained not only to me, but to the newspaper, as well, about her first article – the one in which I was quoted, presumably causing the metal thieves to target our cemetery. How clever it was that they made him the feature this time… Maybe that, indeed, was what our wily old neighbor was after!

Oh my! Did I really say that?

Happy Birthday, Oysterville!

Saturday, April 12th, 2014
Birthday Cake

Birthday Cake

This 160th anniversary of Oysterville’s Founding seems a fitting time to review some of the “firsts” and landmark events that have occurred here over the years.

April 12, 1854 – R.H. Espy and I.A. Clark meet arrive for their rendezvous with Chief Klickeas

May 14, 1855 – By special election, Oysterville was made the Pacific County Seat

1856 – The Oysterville Militia organized; R. H. Espy Elected Major

April 29, 1858 – Isaac Alonzo Clark appointed first Postmaster; post office was located in his store building, the “Sperry Store”

April 2, 1860 – Oysterville plat filed by I.A. Clark

1863 – Munsey’s House (now known as The Little Red Cottage) leased for use as County meeting place

1863 – first (of three) schoolhouse built in Oysterville; soon became first in county to be supported by public funds

1864 – Oysterville Cemetery laid out on land donated by F.C. Davis

1865 – Donation Land Claims issued to I.A. Clark and to John Douglas, both in the Oysterville area

1866 – Land Patent issued to Gilbert Stevens (location of present-day schoolhouse)

1872 – Methodist Church is built

Oysterville Courthouse

First County Courthouse, Oysterville

November 7, 1874 – Master Builder John Peter Paul was allowed the sum of $1,536 in gold coin for completion of the first Pacific County Courthouse

1883 – Pacific Journal, Pacific County’s first newspaper established by Alf Bowen

1884 – half-mile long dock built at north end of town

July 16, 1890 – first and only lynching in Pacific County, at Oysterville Jail

1892 – Baptist Church is built

February 5, 1893 – “South Bend Raiders” break into courthouse and remove county records

1893-1895 – Peninsula College established in the vacated County Courthouse

1918 – Alexander Holman’s cranberry bog brought in a record 208 barrels per acre

January 29, 1921 – Methodist Church blows down

1954 – Celebration of Oysterville’s Centennial

July 4, 1976 – Oysterville place on National Register of Historic Places

2004 – Celebration of Oysterville’ Sesquicentennial

And today, April 12, 2004, we celebrate another landmark anniversary.  Come join the fun!  Festivities begin at 11:00 at the Historic Oysterville Church.

Captain Stream Under Siege

Tuesday, December 31st, 2013
Oysterville Cemetery Lot 6, 1978

Oysterville Cemetry Lot 6, 1978

Nyel and I have been working up at the Oysterville Cemetery finishing up a mapping project that I began almost two years ago.  It has involved finding and recording every single stone and marker, making sure the Oysterville Cemetery Associations’s records match with reality.

In the process, we have found that the years are taking their toll.  Many of the gravestones are gradually sinking into the sandy soil; in the shady places, the moss is several inches thick on tombstone bases; some of the oldest stones are so weathered that the words are now difficult to read.  And there is evidence of vandalism – not, thank goodness, anything recent; just the continued absence of the lovely wrought iron fences that once graced certain lots.

Take Lot 6, for instance.  That is the burial site of Captain Stream and his family – one of the largest and, once-upon-a-time, the loveliest of the entire graveyard.  That was in my childhood but, even then, I realized that it was a very special place to spend eternity.

By 1978, though, when Larry Weathers drew pictures of all the pioneer graves, only the stanchions that supported the large-linked iron chain fence were left at the site.  Now, they too are gone.  And to make matters worse, the large marble stone – the signature marker – has come off its base and is propped up several feet away from where it belongs.

Captain Stream House, cartoon

Captain Stream House

In town, the Captain Stream memory is equally “under siege” – or at least that’s the way I feel about it.  Martie and Steve, the new owners of his little house are in the process of upgrading it by constructing a beautifully conceived addition.  However, when the got ‘into’ the process (literally), they discovered that the original house is riddled with powder post beetles and who knows what else.

It’s a miracle is is still standing – one of those “only held together by the layers of paint” situations.  While they consult with the historic preservation folks and examine next logical steps, the poor old house is only partially clothed in siding.  We are all devastated at this turn of events and it seems like the village is holding its collective breath to see what happens next.

Captain Stream House, December 2013

Captain Stream House, December 2013

I wonder what the Stream family would think of all this.  Captain Stream was a decorated hero of the Life Saving Service and became a realtor when he retired.  He moved across the bay about 1890, joining forces with other promoters who dreamed of making the little sawmill settlement of South Bend “the Baltimore of the Pacific.”  Within three years their efforts had resulted in getting the bay’s name changed to “Willapa” and the county seat moved to South Bend, much to the distress of Oysterville’s citizenry.

It is my belief that their house in Oysterville was a summer place after 1890.  Nevertheless, they must have had a continuing presence in Oysterville.  My grandmother spoke in her letters to Medora about going on a picnic to Long Island with the Stream family; when their son Tom was drowned in 1914 she wrote about attending the funeral; and when Stream was elected to the Washington State Legislature she wrote resignedly that he wasn’t “a bad, bad man.”  (Presumably he did not agree with my grandfather politically.)

I do hope that the “Captain Stream problems” will eventually be solved in a way that preserves his memory and enhances the historic village and cemetery.   Stay tuned…