
'Dripless' Candles
The thirteen wreathes on the doors and windows of the church came down yesterday. The Christmas tree lights in the churchyard and schoolyard were turned off. We said “goodbye” to Christmas 2011 and already are talking about what we’ll do when the season rolls around this year. Chances are it will be different – a brand new party dress for Oysterville in 2012!
Nyel and packed away our Christmas trappings, too. It took almost as long as it did to decorate the house three weeks ago. And I felt much of the same nostalgia as I wrapped each old ornament in tissue paper and labeled the boxes for next time. We also made note of some of the things we’ll do differently – actual written notes filed in a folder marked Christmas!
It’s not only that we’ll forget in a year. That’s probably a given. But in all likelihood, it will be two years before our house is decked out in Christmas finery again. Our general plan is to spend Christmas in L.A. with son Charlie every other year, “God willing an’ the creek don’t rise.” And, if it’s hard to remember from one year to the next, two-year-remembering is impossible!
My notes include things like look again for dripless candles. Trader Joe has discontinued our old standbys and the ones from Sur la Table were drippy despite their label. I’m picky about Christmas candles – they have to be eight inch tapers, just the right color green, and dripless. My friend Nan in California has been on the quest for me and she and I thought the problem had been solved, but it’s not as easy as one would think. Maybe this coming year…
Another thing is Charlie’s stocking. After fifty-five years, the jingle bells around its perimeter are starting to disappear. I need to spend some time with replacements and needle and thread. And then there’s the matter of the tree, itself. Next time, we should pay attention to the lower branches of the tree we choose. This year, there was no ‘underneath’ to tuck the presents.
Finally, my notes say “smaller poinsettias – 4 inch pots?” and “cypress trimmings for greenery; no holly.” This year’s poinsettias were huge and the leaves fell off way too soon leaving them leggy and ugly looking by Christmas day. As for the holly – it looks cheerful for a few days but then needs replacing which involves Nyel and a ladder, usually in wind and rain, which makes me too nervous.
Now the big question is: will we remember to break out the Christmas file in 2013? Especially, will we look it over in a timely manner? It is my experience that putting away the party dress is one thing; remembering it for next time is quite another.
It takes me much longer to take down Christmas than to put it up. Last year I labled all the tubs (I love Frank’s label maker) so maybe it will go quicker, but I always try to get Dave to leave the outside lights up longer. Our peace sign stays lit year round, but all the rest brighten up the long nights of winter. I think we ought to call them Winter Lights and leave them up until the equinox. Maybe if Costco didn’t put out their Christmas stuff in September then we’d return to celebrating the complete twelve days of Christmas. My mother claims that this mad dash to Christmas started in WWII when it took a long time for packages to reach the fighting men so stores put out their wrapping paper, etc early. Whatever the cause I’d rather have Christmas be the beginning of the celebration than the end. Our stuff will just have to stay up until next weekend.
Oh, groan in regard to the “dripless” candles! I did see some others, recently, correct color I think. The search continues.
Sydney: Your home looked beautiful! Sorry to think of it all gone. But refreshing too. Weird.
I use the candles from Sweet Williams. They burn for ever and I can’t remember them dripping. Great colors too.
Thanks, Brigid. We’ll check them out!
In response to Stephanie…In Anchorage Ak strings of small white lights go up as soon as the darkness is longer than the daylight….and they stay up until the reverse is true. It makes a beautiful winter landscape. I love the idea and wish we would all do that here. Happy 2012.
I so agree the lights should stay up through the equinox as “winter lights”. A friend who moved to the states from the Uk expressed surprise and dismay at how early Christmas decorations are put up and how quickly after Christmas they are put away. He says in his hometown, Leeds, lights stay up till Jan 6th at least.