
Capri
Since first we met, Nyel and I have had an ongoing discussion that always begins – “If you could have a little getaway place, where would you choose. My answer has varied over the years – Capri, Corfu, maybe Carmel but it is almost always somewhere near the sea. Nyel is equally consistent – the mountains. Any mountains.
“And, if you have to have water, we could choose a place near a mountain lake,” he assures me.
But… the lake is not the sea. And the mountains aren’t at sea level. I feel nervous in the mountains – perhaps it’s the rarified air. Perhaps it’s that getting anyplace requires climbing, either up or down. Perhaps I’m just basically lazy.

Mountain Lake
“We could choose a nice, big lake. It would feel like the sea. And you could just sit beside it and relax – no need to hike. Not up. Not down,” he teases.
“How about Paris?” I counter. We both love Paris. Not by the sea. And not in the mountains. A compromise.
Maybe it’s because I’m a Pisces that I am drawn to the water. And maybe it’s because I have always lived by tidal waters that I feel the need to be close to the sea. For Nyel, maybe it’s because he’s a Leo that the mountains have appeal. And maybe his childhood in inland, mountainous Idaho left an indelible yearning. I don’t know the answer…

A Sunrise on Willapa Bay
Fortunately, perhaps, it’s only a game we play. We aren’t really in the market for a getaway place – or even for a fantasy vacation. We are content in Oysterville – admittedly, I more so than my lion mate. From our house here across from the church, as my Uncle Willard wrote, I can watch the slow breathing of the bay, six hours in and six hours out. No matter where we are in the cycle, I am content that the ebb and flow will continue. Forever and ever. Amen.
Beautiful essay, Sydney. Thanks for sharing.
A truly lovely piece!
I have always lived by the ocean. East coast, west. They resonate in my soul and bring me peace and calm. I mostly cherish the time I was fortunate enough to live near the Pacific and live in the wee town of Oysterville.