So far… better than good!
Even though I’d had a bit of warning, the package that arrived in the mail yesterday took me by surprise. A belated birthday present from step-daughter Marta! The ‘warning’ part had been a phone call from her while she was shopping at some sort of ‘everything’ store near her home in Marin County. She asked me about the kinds of hats I like and favorite colors in socks and preferences in snacks.
“Not berets or ball caps,” I said. “They point right to my sticky-outie ears.” And we laughed. “Yes, striped socks are great,” I said. “And blue denim color, not navy, is best.” We laughed some more. “Snacks? Salty, not sweet,” we said in unison. More laughter. She told me upfront she was on a quest for my belated birthday but, apparently, what stuck in my mind was the fun of talking to her while she shopped. So, when the package arrived I was clueless – until I saw the return address.
In typical Marta fashion, the wrapping paper was hand-decorated, the card designed and fashioned by Marta and there were signs and messages throughout. I smiled – even laughed out loud – as I opened each item. Two pair of socks, a jar of my favorite freeze-dried decaf coffee, and a package of Tex-Mex nibblies. I could hear the echo of Marta’s giggle with each rustle of tissue paper.
“I hope these fill the bill… a little munchie, a little drinkie, a little fashion wear!” the card said.
I thought back to my birthday on February 28th. Nyel was in the hospital for five days and I was right there with him. When he worried about how I was spending my 81st, I told him I’d make up for it by finding a way to celebrate all year long. So far, so good. When we got home in March, my friend Maggie gave me a special birthday luncheon and the guests even brought presents! And then a bit later in the month, our friends Petra and Michael took us to a belated birthday lunch in Astoria! I felt blessed.
And now it’s April and… make that so far, so much better than good!
A birthday played out over days is always fun.